If I’ve learned anything over the years riding constant waves of change; from divorce to losing a 20 year career and starting all over, it’s that change is inevitable. It’s how we choose to handle it that we will either continue our suffering or put a hault to it. I created this list right in the midst of the thick of it and….I wouldn’t change a thing.
#10
Stop Overthinking
You are wasting precious time
Overthinking will only lead to anxiety
Overthinking is NOT focus
#9
People are not mad at you
They are just jealous
#8 Let it the Fuck Go
Keep a routine, but stop stressing over details
The most successful and interesting people in this world didn’t get that way by keeping clean sinks and made beds
#7
Remember What IS Important
Refer to #8 for assistance
#6
Do It! Do It Now! Do It Yesterday! Chances are….you planned for this
#5
You Will Not Recognize Yourself
This is kinda the point….because you’ve CHANGED!
#4 Remember the Past All You Want as long as you don’t relive it
#3 Regrets are Stupid
You learned something…unless you’re stupid
#2 Stop Reading Other People’s Quotes and go write your own!
And the #1 thing I learned most about change is…
You Can Do It! But it Means You Have to Change.
Dishes in the Sink 